Written by FHM India
Creepy comments about my body parts
In today’s world women are too self-conscious about their body and they need someone who loves them just the way they are rather than being judgmental. Comments on my boobs and butt in a sexy manner are always welcomed, but then in the bedroom that’s not the only thing I want to hear. It definitely kills the interest. At least for me!
Rohini Nag, 25, Correspondent
Criticising my love handles…
When you are in an intimate position and the guy grabs your handles and says, “You have got to do something about that babe” – that sentence kills it. It’s the last thing, I want my man to say especially when I know, we’re totally going to rock it tonight. I mean, yes I know I have a few ounces of flesh here and there, but don’t say all that nonsense when we’re about to make love.
Neharika Sharma. 23. Student
Having Nicole Scherzinger-type posters on the wall
We know it that she is not only hot, but also has a body to die for. But then, at the age of 26, you can’t have posters of her or her-types on the wall. When the girl walks in to the room, these posters are the last things she wants to see. They not only give a complex, but also make the girl uncomfortable. A total turn off!
Priyanka Rao. 25. NGO Worker
Too much dirty talk
No denying about the fact that we like talking dirty but only to a certain limit. If you only talk dirty to me, then all I will think that you have only ‘sex’ in your mind. Go google some interesting topics to converse on, when she is seated on your bed. Not only will you get her attention, but also she is going to be attracted to you even more.
Soni Rastogi. 25. Merchandiser
Don’t take your socks off if you have smelly feet. Nothing is more putting off than a pair of stinkies!
Neha Khosla. 24. Student
Dirty clothes lying around…
When I walk into your house, dirty clothes should never welcome me. I’m definitely not ‘Monica’ from Friends, but the sight of dirty clothes (especially underwear) will just murder the excitement and enthusiasm. I remember, I went for a drink to this really hot date’s house and the moment I saw his underwear on the beanbag, it totally grossed me out.
Runa Gattani. 30. HR Head
Welcomed by his mom and dad
It will be like an OMG situation, if his mom open’s the door. I agree we live in the 21st century, but his parents in the flat when we enter will not be appreciated. I guess it will make any girl embarrassed.
Neha Gattani. 29. Chef
‘Hair’ and there
Not paying any importance to keep it clean and shaved. That is definitely a turn off man! Another fatal mistake they make is after he puts it back, he sleeps without cuddling as if he just wanted the pleasure of having sex.
Sruthi Viswan, 24. Model
You’ve wined and dined with me and now it’s time to head back to your place. But as you remove your shirt and the first glimpse of your hairy chest (sort of like Anil Kapoor) and everything is over, right then and there. Seriously, if not wax, at least trim it guys!
Reetika Kumar. 24. HR Professional
Taxi No. 9211
Asking the girl, “So will you take a cab and go home, ummm… My friend has my car keys/ I have to rush to work” … THIS can utterly ruin all the intimacy and feelings that had ever cropped up in the girl’s heart for him. Forget about going to the next stage!
Deeptii Mohan. 21. Model
Not a Beleiber, please
I would judge a guy by what music he listens to. If he’s ‘Beleiber’ I lose my faith in him.
Kritika Gattani. 25. Merchandiser
Torn and tattered underwear
It’s such a turn off if the guy is wearing funny or sloppy underwear. Dirty underwear is even worse, but the worst is if he is still hanging on to his torn and tattered underpants. Eww!
Swati Gupta. 26. HR Professional
No personal hygiene and the date ends!
A guy’s sense of hygiene is very important. Does he wash his hands? Is he ‘clean’ in general? If the guy does not know the concept of personal hygiene, then don’t even think of going to the second stage. Period.
Gopika Kumria. 25. Merchandiser
Running to the loo at the wrong time
When a guy goes to the washroom just before having sex (and after the foreplay) – even if it’s just out of habit or a certain situation that makes them run to the loo, it’s irritating. It totally annoys me and ruins my mood.
Prerna Gupta. 24. Marketing Executive
Boasting about the No. of girls he has been with
We all have had past relationships and it’s totally fine. However, showing-off about what a stud you are and going on talking about your past relationships and the girls you’ve slept around with is not cool. So dude, zip it!
Adel D’Souza. 26. Air Hostess
Making her know that that he is commitment phobic in the beginning only
They are too scared of giving a commitment for future and their pet line is, “Baby I need time to settle down.” If this line is said when we are actually ready to take the relationship to the next level, then the girl will have doubts and will walk away. Instead they should actually say, “I will give you the commitment, but it will take some time to settle.”
Saibee Dua. 22. Stylist