Hey Dr. Mojo, what’s your favourite sex position? Just curious... — Sudeep Sethi, Delhi
Ha! Putting me on the spot are you? Well let’s say the expert always has the best moves up his sleeve. Some of my go to positions are Doggie style and Reverse Cowgirl but I don’t shy away from experimenting and never let things get stale.
2. Still Hung Up
I had a really bad break up sometime back, and had sworn off of dating again. However, the girl that I had a rebound with looks exactly the same as my ex. Maybe that was the reason why I went with her. But now, I miss my ex and cannot seem to get over her. Please Help! — Rohan Raj, Darjeeling
You were right about the fact that getting under someone else is the best way to get over someone but your choice of rebound was questionable. Time for you to wind down a bit and process your grief. It seems you are carrying trauma from your past relationship. That is never the way to go forward. Do not go into battle without healing your old wounds.
3. Careful What You Wish For
My significant other and I were watching porn together one day and she said she wondered how a threesome would actually work. How do I breach the topic for a serious discussion without risking her wrath? And what do I do if she insists on getting another guy in bed?— Aviral Singh, Mumbai
Listen, up young man, a threesome is not a joke. And though you are fantasising about two girls at the same time, you are setting a dangerous precedent. Your girlfriend can very well insist on two men as well. You need to have a rock solid relationship and lot of faith in your partner to successfully navigate a threesome. Tread cautiously.
4. Fizzling Out
My girlfriend and I have been in a steady relationship for 3 years now. Now, everything is great. However, there is only so much that one can get out of being vanilla, if you get my drift. I try my best to convince her to try something new, but she refuses flat out. What do I do? — Saikat Reddy, Hyderabad
Oh boy, after three years things are no longer heating up in the sack. The trick is to introduce new stuff with keeping her needs in mind. Focus on her pleasure and get her off her rockers. Get a vibrator if you have to. Once your girlfriend starts feeling more positive towards sex, she will be more receptive.
5. Forbidden Fantasy
I am in a bit of a quandary. I really love my boyfriend, but often, when we are doing the act, I can’t help but fantasise about someone else. Not anyone in particular but random people, who I find really hot, including women. Am I bad person for doing this to him? Is our relationship dying?— Deepshika Banerjee, Kolkata
Relax honey! Most of us are guilty of fantasising about other people once in a while. This is quite natural and there is nothing to worry about. If you feel like it is going too far then have an honest conversation with your boyfriend. But this could also be the first sign that you are actively disengaged from the relationship. My suggestion? Talk it out.